Mungkin...

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Mungkin saja orang yang dipandang buruk dan dianggap sifatnya jelek itu adalah orang yang sedang berusaha sekeras mungkin untuk berubah. 

Namun, karena terlalu banyak tekanan, bullyan, ia menjadi takut dan tak berani untuk berubah. 

Takut dipandang "pencitraan" atau "pura-pura baik".

Jadi, jangan mudah menyimpulkan buruknya orang jika belum terlalu kenal "lebih dalam" orang tersebut.

—Rihlatul-Amal
21 September 2017
Di Dompu.

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